Thursday, February 7, 2008

Life in a Mess!!!!!

I have been writing exactly after 1 month. Thanks Preethilata for remembering me….

I have thought several times to post a new blog but the question was what I write? Should I write about my broken relationship in which I have taken back steps without uttering a single word? Or should I write about the loneliness of my life that Now I am again searching for someone one else in my life??

Yes, I am always failure in making relationship with someone to whom I like. This is not the first time I have thrown my feelings like garbage. Actually something is wrong with me. I can’t bear the boundations of any relationship. Just give me some space for breath.

Anyways, like a free bird I am again searching for a nest. Please for GOD sake don’t call me a flirty girl. I am longing for care, affection, friendliness. .That’s all. I am just searching a Pal in every stranger, a healthy relationship…… But I know others take it for granted……… No body understands the true meanings……

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

Awww...

These things would have happened with everyone of us at some point in our lives alright. So don't blame urselves for it! When the time and person is right everything will Settle...Trust me...

Chin up & Keep smiling... >:D<

Anonymous said...

Hey....


Dont be so pessimist....
life has different phases, and it is necessary hw one tackles it....so dnt worry....
u wud be out of this soon very soon:-))

keep Faith
Chakoli:-))

Amandeep Singh said...

hey!

U shall get the nest very soon...n rest up in cozy and nice place
:)

wishess!!!!
:)

Sandhya said...

@Curious, Chakoli & Standby

Thanx for consoling me...

Akash said...

Hi Sandhya
i know exactly how you feel....i have been feeling that for mor ethan a year..
but trust me...everyone is destin to be with somone who cares and loves you..when the time is right..it will happen...

about the feelings..when a person has not felt the care and love ..its easier..but once you have felt that from someone and if you suddenly loose it...then...it is more diifcult...bcos our heart cries out aloud...for that care and love again...
this is what i thought...
take care
god bless you...

Sandhya said...

@ known stranger

Thanx 4 ur blessings.....

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Learn to laugh at Life,interstingly you will get your laughter back !!
As curious said,these things happen in everyones life,but one thing never feel defeated and shoe away self pity..These are dangerous enemies !! ok Kid !!!
TC
CU

Jaggu said...

Hey, feeling bad for you. But believe me, everybody will face this type of situations in life sometime or the other. The only thing you have to do is to be completely unemotional and happy. This will change u totally. And dont think too much about anything, just take it casually and easily. I know its easy to say than follow. But if you practise and follow, i hope you will be happy.

Lukkydivs said...

oh sweety, u may not have others understanding ur feelings...but u always have urself...the one who knows every feeling of urs :)

keep smiling and build a nest soon :)

Sandhya said...

@jaggu

I know its very difficult. Anyways, wil try to my best....thanx

Mush said...

Hey it happens with everyone. So don worry. Even I confess I am a victim. My love life has always failed, though my friends say Im very romantic ..lolz. But with each failuer ive grown a stronger person inside and understood relationships much better.. so feel lucky that ur given a chance to understand better and be stronger the next time, than the other friends of urs who have never tasted failure ;)

cm chap said...

Hey Dear... Come on... You dnt deserve to be so sad...

These things happen. My personal take on issues like this is.. It makes u a stronger person.

On a lighter side... why don't u take it this way... "Its one more opprtuniy for a perfect person"

Vinesh said...

wish you strength and a new start, sandhya!

Aarthi said...

Hey Sandhya..don't get depressed with this...this happens to almost everyone at one point ...its all a part of life..just dust it and walk further ...you have lot more of sweet things waiting for you...take care honey...cheer up...:)

Aarthi said...

Hey Sandhya..don't get depressed with this...this happens to almost everyone at one point ...its all a part of life..just dust it and walk further ...you have lot more of sweet things waiting for you...take care honey...cheer up...:)

Preetilata【ツ】 said...

I know u will be fine soon. good u hv d courage to break-off . it's not that easy still u did that. it's good to walk away thn to carry on forcefully. n no u r not a failure....it's just d matter of finding d correct person.

n this virtual place is ur own place. u can write anything n everything hr. hr u cn really gt a family. n all d members hr care 4 ech other. n u knw sandhya... blogging actualy helps ovr come griefs. i hs hlpd many. try it..u will knw it.


take care dear...hugsss..
:) :) :)

WritingsForLife said...

sometimes i feel like problems arise when we try to like someone or try to find a relationship. Why don't we just let it be. You cannot make someone love you and you cannot make urself love someone either. Its something that happens naturally and over time. Stop looking for love. It will come to you and then you wont have any problems at all. I promise you.

Anonymous said...

anytime dear....

But consoling wouldnt help much..until and unless u make up ur mind:-)))

Vrijilesh Rai said...

Broken relationships are like your old grocery store. You move on the new one which gives u better service and better customer relations.

The only positive out of them is they teach us a lot of lessons. Instead of brooding over and killing oneself, put those behind you as u do for a lost cricket match and look forward to the next one.

And please don't consciously go searching for a relationship. If it has to happen, it will. Enjoy the free time!