Savita, One of my Office colleagues is having an affair with Rohan. He lives in Mumbai and came back to Delhi for a day after a handful year. This couple had decided to spend time together. My friend called me near about 8’o clock in the night and asked me to do a favour. Actually Savita told her parents that she is going with me.
‘Ok No Probs’-I told her and then she put the phone to Rohan to say thanks to me. The story started from here.
That day, I don’t what happened between these guys. Rohan called me at 10’o clock in the midnight and told me that ‘Your friend is yelling at me at the top of her voice and I think she has gone mad. ‘
‘So, what can I do for you, Rohan?’- Me
‘Nothing, but I just want to talk with you. Sorry for disturbing you at this time’- Rohan
‘It’s Ok’-Me
‘Can I come to meet you tomorrow???????’- Rohan
‘Sorry Rohan ‘m busy tomorrow’.-Me
‘Okay, Bye.’-Rohan
He called me again next day saying thanks for listening him n after that he was continuously making calls to me but I was avoiding him half of the times. I did not speak harsh words to him, which was my mistake. Anyways, he always talked me about his relationship with my colleague only.
My colleague got to know somehow and then the rumor she has spread in our office regarding me was too scared to write.
Everybody from Junior to Senior is gossiping but me sitting calm in my nest thinking where is my mistake in this chapter?????
‘Ok No Probs’-I told her and then she put the phone to Rohan to say thanks to me. The story started from here.
That day, I don’t what happened between these guys. Rohan called me at 10’o clock in the midnight and told me that ‘Your friend is yelling at me at the top of her voice and I think she has gone mad. ‘
‘So, what can I do for you, Rohan?’- Me
‘Nothing, but I just want to talk with you. Sorry for disturbing you at this time’- Rohan
‘It’s Ok’-Me
‘Can I come to meet you tomorrow???????’- Rohan
‘Sorry Rohan ‘m busy tomorrow’.-Me
‘Okay, Bye.’-Rohan
He called me again next day saying thanks for listening him n after that he was continuously making calls to me but I was avoiding him half of the times. I did not speak harsh words to him, which was my mistake. Anyways, he always talked me about his relationship with my colleague only.
My colleague got to know somehow and then the rumor she has spread in our office regarding me was too scared to write.
Everybody from Junior to Senior is gossiping but me sitting calm in my nest thinking where is my mistake in this chapter?????
20 comments:
u know sandhya... its not a sin.. its a good thing that u hv decided to help her... bt u havn't done that in the proper way..
Evry relation has a line, which shd not be crossed. I m sorry to say but rohan tried to cross the line on that eventful night. he shd not talk to u wen he was with her gf.. wen a couple is together and that too after a long time.. they shd spend time with each other only....
things has gone awry.. but i thnk u can still rectify them....
good luck.......
Hi Ashish,
frankly speaking m very upset with this incident.
but i know it takes two to make a clap. I thk i should tell her first that Rohan is talking to me these days.
Anyways, its a nice experince of life.I hv learnt somethg from this incident.
hint..hint...may be rohan is interested in u not in savita......
help those who really appriciates ur help...not fools like savita...i wouldnt like somone to spread things about me...i would straight her out....tell her to take care of her boy....instead of talking about me...
otherwise say bye-bye to her boytoy...
u know sandhya...
i think this is the only mistake u hv done in this incident...
frndshp is a realtionship of faith and she was feeling this betrayel only..
although, there isnt much u can do abt it.. now i'd suggest to take this matter with a mew perspective.....
say bye bye to his boy.. he belongs to her,, nd if he is doing a silent betrayal, its not good for anyone of u.........
ya. even i cant understand her situation.
She must be feeling insecured thats why she has done like this.
Anyways, i have done Bye- Bye to both of them. Only official chit-chat.
Hi i just browsed about and landed at your blog.
Tell you what, he is being a jerk, and she is being a moron. So here is what you should do, walk upto her and tell her you are not interested in this nonsense anymore and that her boyfriend has some sort of a problem and its not any of your concern, he called and you took the call cause he is her boyfriend and you wanted to help if you can. Thats it and ask her to shut up and apologize for the rumours. Also, tell her that her insecurity is her problem not yours.
Two, when this said boyfriend calls again, by God!, lose it if you want to, buy give him a piece of your mind.
Here is the thing, they are having troubles and they are bringing in a third person to blame for the troubles. Dont fall for it.
If you have the guts, do this in the office, at a break time or something. Tell her, she and boyfriend can together go to hell.
Hi Sandhya... When thing go wrong these ppl look for a scapegoat... Unfortunately you have become one.
Put it bluntly... "To that guy..." Better to be away from you to save himself...
"To that girl... " You are not trying to steal any1 and its not ur way of life.
Hmm..possesiveness,rebound,harmless(or Harmful)flirtations,poor timing all rolled into one real life story..Agree with padma totally..simply ask them to go to hell,unless ofcourse u hv started to look at the guy differently !!
TC
CU
Don't mind that gossip, you know who you are , that's more important. You don't owe them explaination ;0)
Hmmm... Lookss like enough advice been doled out.. My only experienced one would be, "Ignore, ignore and ignore."
@padma.
Thanx for dropping by n thanx a tone for ur suggestions.
The same i hv did, bt vry quietly coz i dont want to create mess in d office.
That girl has created already so mess in d office bt all of my colleagues know dat m not that type of girl.
@cm-chap.
ya. finally i hv said good bye to both of them.
@compassion Unlimited.
@reign
@Sirpy.
thanx a tonne 4 ur advise. Its great to hear that all my blooger friends r wid me.
Anyways, i hv said goodbye to both of them bt i hv taken a pledge dat henceforth, dont go friendly wid ur office colleagues.
moral of the story....dont get into shitty office gossips....work ur as off nd get the hell outta there!
@Prasaad
Thanx 4 encouraging me.
After all this mess, just pick the postive out of any experienece good/bad-now I'm sure you would have learnt sumthing out of this..so forgive n forget and keep smiling:)
@Aarthi
This is absolutely true dat we always learn sumthg out of any experience.
I hv also learnt a thg dat we shd not so much familiar wid our office colleagues n specially sorting out a case of BF/GF.
Makes me think thta offices are extension of schools! Yea? don't giv a damn sandhya... Jus give a deaf ear!
@Curious
hi Nandhini.
ya, I shd.
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